If you’re struggling with life, intimacy, relationships or sexuality, you’ve come to the right place.
Turn your life around to create the confidence, relationships, freedom, pleasure, intimacy and passion you long for. Easy connections, less struggle, deeper intimacy and great sex are right around the corner.
I’m a certified clinical sexologist & Aussie-trained counselor specializing in coaching and sex & relationships work offering:
- holistic, embodied counseling & coaching for individuals / relationships / sex therapy
- trauma healing / healing the erotic
- healing wounds from family of origin
- somatic sexology
- online courses for individuals & couples/ relationships
- embodied coaching & counseling for couples / relationships /marriages
- couple’s intimacy retreats
- plus online video consulting around the USA and across the world
I serve individuals, traditional couples & people in open, polyamorous, kinky and non monogamous relationships with my affirming, compassionate and no B.S. approach.
LGBTQIA & straight identities & all faiths welcome (including no faith).
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, families and couples, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans and alternative lifestyle couples. I received my training in Marriage and Family Therapy from Appalachian State University and completed post-graduate certificate in sex therapy from the University of Michigan. My therapeutic approach originates from a systemic view of relationships and development. Some modalities that I may utilize include Experiential Therapy, Solution-Focused/Brief Therapy, Narrative Therapy and Transgenerational/Bowenian Therapy. I believe strongly in a strength-based approach and that anyone can benefit from support and a nonjudgmental perspective during difficult transitions and experiences.I believe in addressing underlying issues instead of treating symptoms in relationships/families. I provide therapy via Skype and phone to clients who prefer these formats. The initial consultation sessions are conducted in person, and the client must physically be in NC when services are provided. Services: Intimacy, Sexual identity, Sexual dysfunctions, Trauma, PTSD, Communication enhancement, Body image, Gender identity, Depression, LGBTQ+ related issues, Anxiety, ADHD, Gender Dysphoria, Premarital Therapy (PREPARE), Gender/Orientation, Couples enrichment (ENRICH) *Some evening appointments available *
I am a psychotherapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, in private practice as a mental health provider. As a member of this community, I know how important it can be to find someone who understands sexual diversity when you are looking for a therapist. All of my services are conducted online through a video platform, so I can provide therapy to anyone in the State of California.
My job is to have hope for people, and I have a passion for assisting others reach their fullest potential in life. I believe all human beings hold inherent worth and deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, no matter who you are, where you’ve been, and what you’ve done. You have value, and you matter.
Whatever you’re going through, I am here to support you, without judgment or bias. My approach to therapy is down-to-earth, meeting people where they are through conversation. I view all of my work through a social justice lens. Quality therapy requires full consciousness of the inter-sectional identities and complex stressors that affect our lives.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I am a well-trained and experienced mental health provider. I also have a diverse set of work experiences that have shaped how I approach psychotherapy. I am both a Navy Veteran and a former Peace Corps Volunteer, but I spent the early years of my career as a community organizer in Los Angeles.
I have worked with many different populations in various locations, from New York City to Botswana, and I have a total of 4 years’ experience living and working abroad. While studying mental health and therapy at Columbia University in New York City, I had multiple opportunities that allowed me to learn from the best in the field.
My clinical foundation was built on working with adult survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and child abuse. I also volunteered my time on a national LGBT youth suicide hotline. After New York, I joined the military to serve as a Naval Officer. I worked as an active duty mental health provider at 5 different duty stations, including two tours as the Director of Mental Health Departments on military installations. During those years, I treated nearly every mental health condition but maintained a specialty in treating issues related to trauma and/or sexuality. Today, I work with a variety of populations, including Veterans, refugees, and sex offenders.
I am a proud Californian. San Diego is home, but I was born and raised in rural Pennsylvania, near Pittsburgh. I come from a blue-collar, working-class family. A midwesterner at heart, I completed my undergraduate studies in Psychology at The Ohio State University. Early life experiences shaped my values in compassion, honesty, hard work, and empathy.
I may be a trained clinician, but you are the expert on your life. Therapy is a collaborative process in assisting you to find greater peace in life. It can be hard work, but I’ll help to carry the burden. I look forward to hearing your story.