The Work
Therapy for the relationally brave.
I work with queer couples/ partners, polycules, caregivers, and solo seekers navigating the sticky, sacred terrain of connection — repairing ruptures, deepening trust, renegotiating agreements, increasing access to pleasure, and returning to resonance.
Many of my clients are LGBTQIA+, nonmonogamous, neurodivergent, kinky, or otherwise living outside the cultural script; often they’re looking for a therapist with lived experience, who doesn’t need a glossary to understand where they’re coming from. Some of these clients are unpacking gender stories written by other people. Some are preparing for or adjusting to medical transition. Others are grappling with the complex intersections of identity, fertility, and family-making — exploring paths to parenting, navigating caregiver burnout, or facing questions about what legacy, lineage, and chosen family mean in queer life.
I support people in asking the hard, beautiful questions: Who am I now? Who do I want to become? What feels most at home in my body? In my relationships? Whether we’re reworking attachment patterns, integrating trauma, or practicing new ways of relating, I bring curiosity, clarity, and care to the process.
My approach is warm, direct, collaborative, and adaptive. I use a blend of structural family therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), somatic and mindfulness practices, harm reduction, narrative therapy, nature therapy, and psychoeducation. I attend closely to the body’s signals and the nervous system’s needs, especially in relational healing.
I bring nearly two decades of experience as a sexuality educator, intimacy coach, and group facilitator — so conversations about desire, power, grief, pleasure, embodiment, and boundaries aren’t just welcome, they’re central to the work.
Specialties
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Gender exploration and transition support
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Queer and trans/ gender expansive couples therapy
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Fertility, family-building, and parenting/ caregiving stress
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Ethical nonmonogamy and polyamory
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BDSM, kink, and sex-positive therapy
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Conflict, communication, and rupture/repair
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Rebuilding trust after harm or infidelity
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Sexuality, desire discrepancies, and intimacy
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LGBTQIA+ identity and family-of-origin issues
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Trauma-informed, body-aware relational healing
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Neurodivergence in relationships (ADHD, autism)
About Me
I hold a Master’s in Counseling (MFT) from CSU East Bay and am a Certified Sexuality Educator through AASECT, where I previously chaired the Gender Diverse Special Interest Group. My background spans peer counseling, harm reduction, education, and community care in queer, trans, and nontraditional relationship spaces.
I’m queer, genderqueer, polyamorous, neurodivergent, and committed to therapy that honors complexity and prioritizes consent, liberation, and joy. I don’t believe healing is linear — it’s relational exploration, sometimes messy, and absolutely worth it.
