I'm Paul and I specialise in providing a safe and nurturing space for women who want to connect to their bodies, femininity and sexuality, particularly if they have experienced sexual trauma, or difficult relationships with men.
Sessions are a place where you can create experiences where you are in control, and your boundaries and wellbeing are the highest priority. They are a place where you can express yourself without shame or judgement. Where you can learn to overcome any barriers in the way of being the woman you want to be.
In sessions, you can choose to include touch at a pace and level that feels right for you. This can include holding, conscious touch with clothes on, or, if you feel comfortable and ready, more intimate forms of touch. The goal is to help you feel cared for, empowered, and connected to your body in a way that aligns with your needs and boundaries.
Supported on your unique journey at your own pace, you might explore:
- Cultivating self-love and trust in your body
- Identifying and communicating your desires and boundaries
- Receiving validation and acceptance for your authentic self
- Enhancing self-intimacy and sexual fulfilment
- Navigating relationships with men from a place of empowerment
- Exploring the connection between your sexuality and spirituality
I offer trauma-informed coaching and sexological bodywork sessions online and in-person in London. I offer authentic tantric massage and yoni healing in-person in London.
I’ve worked with people where even talking about their body was a huge act of courage. I’ve helped rekindle relationships. And I’ve helped people explore their full potential in eroticism and pleasure. I’d love to have a friendly chat to discover what’s possible for you.
Testimonials
“I had severe trust issues with men due to previous trauma but the sessions I received from Paul were so loving and nurturing. He made me feel cherished, seen, attractive but, most importantly of all, safe… Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving. I feel I have made huge progress and feel ready to embark on a new relationship after keeping myself closed down for so many years.”
— Elizabeth
"Paul holds an amazing space of unconditional love and acceptance which I had never experienced before with a man. Doing exercises that enabled me to practice boundaries and consent, I started setting boundaries in my own life and saying no to things I didn’t want including saying no to sex. In that space, I was able to explore my own femininity, start to feel like a sexual woman again and accept that I did deserve love.”
— Melanie
