Staci Hoover, LCSW

I offer a clinical space where power dynamics, ethical non-monogamy, and queer identities are the norm, not the exception—and certainly never a pathology. Our work together is grounded in an affirmative framework that holds the nuances of conscious power exchange, aftercare needs, relational autonomy, and scene/boundary negotiation as natural, integrated aspects of your lived experience.

For those of us accustomed to checking the box "other," the search for competent and compassionate care is often made more challenging when you're also moving through life with a dynamic disability, masking ADHD or Autism, or managing chronic illness like EDS, POTS, or MCAS. If these intersecting realities resonate with your daily life, Secure Self Care was built for you. I understand that your relationship structures and your physical, cognitive, and emotional capacities are deeply intertwined. By intentionally orchestrating your relationship style, you unapologetically chose to build a life custom-tailored to your desires—a life that naturally accommodates your needs. I am here to support you in embracing all of it.

You don't have to have certainty about how you identify, your interests, or a formal diagnosis to begin; you are welcome exactly as you are. Our telehealth sessions are built to hold space for the variability of your symptoms and sensory tolerances, so snacks, pets, fidgets, using the chat box, resting with your camera off, and moving around are always options.