You've probably gotten good at reading a room before you decide what to say. Maybe you've watched someone's face change when kink came up, or you've just learned to keep it vague with partners, friends, even therapists. So you stopped bringing it up. That doesn't mean the parts of you that want connection, pleasure, or exploration went anywhere. It just means you've been managing them alone.
Hi, I'm Trey, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Florida and a queer, affirming, Certified Sex Therapist through the Sexual Health Alliance. I work with individuals on intimacy, sexuality, and connection, including kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy, as real parts of a life, not things to fix.
Together we can work through shame around pleasure, kink, fetish, low desire, sexual dysfunction, sexual trauma, or the balance of monogamous, polyamorous, and kinky relationships. I'm sex-positive, and I mean it in practice, not just as a word on a profile: the goal is getting you back in your body, your values, and the intimacy you actually want.
Therapy with me is honest, direct, and usually has some humor in it. We'll get into the hard stuff without you having to brace for judgment. If you're ready to stop managing this alone, let's talk. I'm licensed in Florida, Alabama, Arkansas, Colorado, Illinois, and Virginia.
