As a Human Dynamics Consultant and Behavioral Scientist, I’m here to help you stop translating yourself for a world that doesn’t always "get" it. I’ve been active in the lifestyle since 2010, and as a PhD candidate in Psychology with a background in mental health and education, I’ve seen firsthand how traditional spaces can miss the mark.
My coaching is a warm, highly-informed home for people who live at the intersection of "complicated" and "awesome." Whether you’re exploring the scene solo, navigating deep waters with partners, or looking to deconstruct traditional scripts to discover your true kinks and submissive or dominant edges, I provide a judgment-free space to explore. We’ll work together to untangle the big stuff: discovering who you really are, building the confidence to express your desires, and setting boundaries that actually stick.
I specialize in helping people manage the heavy lifting of depression, PTSD, neurodivergence, performance anxiety, and even trauma while staying connected to their intimacy.
Together, we’ll build practical, brain-friendly systems for executive functioning. Whether that’s managing the "mental load" of polyamory, the sensory needs of BDSM, or the performance pressure that often comes with exploring new sexual identities.
The goal is to make your lifestyle feel sustainable instead of overwhelming or suppressed. This is a trauma-informed space to unmask, heal, and finally build an intimate life that works for your unique brain and heart.
~ Stay Queer