Life Coaches

As an AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor working with individuals and couples, I combine evidence-based best practices with experience as a Tantric Sexuality Educator and practitioner, offering a supportive environment for thorough and constructive exploration of sexual matters. Questions and concerns may be talked about openly without fear of embarrassment or criticism. As a Mind-Body Psychotherapist, I help clients talk through issues and learn to utilize emotions as embodied resources for healing and growth, encouraging awareness of connection between body, mind, and spirit. My background as a pastoral psychotherapist and experience with body therapies such as yoga, breath-work, and meditation inform my work

I believe that relationships and sexuality play a crucial role in overall health and wellness yet are often overlooked in both mainstream and holistic models of care. Sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality, specializing in women's wellness, sexual and reproductive health, digestive support and end of life care.

I offer Erotic Embodiment & Intimacy coaching using the experiential Somatica Method. I offer private sessions for individuals, couples, and groups either online or at my office in Oakland, CA.

I approach therapy as a co-explorer; working with my clients to access their internal compass, identify personal values that move them through the world, and uncover inner resources they are already equipped with that can provide healing in relationship to them-self and others. I accompany clients on their path to explore life’s challenges, process losses and trauma, or examine the internal landscape that shapes who they are.

I offer empowerment through embodiment—coming home to your body. I work hands-on as well as with various embodiment and somatic techniques.

When it comes to massage, I’m skilled at releasing muscular tension and opening up deep-seated patterns. But beyond that, I also offer specialized concepts that primarily target the nervous system.

So, if you’re looking for deep tissue muscle work, a somato-psychic massage, or a powerful ritual massage, reach out!
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PS: To all business owners—if we do a session in the context of "betriebliche Gesundheitsvorsorge," you can deduct the expenses from your taxes. Uh, how sexy. 😉

Over the past decade, my practice has gravitated toward being of service to those who practice alternative sexual lifestyles. From working with people who engage in BDSM and polyamory to swingers, cross-dressers, and just bog standard kinksters, I've heard of so many occasions where, in the first session, the therapist has immediately identified the sexual behavior as the problem and disregarded everything else mentioned. Common among those who come to see me are a history of secrecy, shame, and self-contempt, feelings of inadequacy, or feeling "broken." Anger, anxiety, and confusion, along with a deep-rooted shame, lead to desperation and being overwhelmed. You have chosen a lifestyle that not everyone understands although, if theres a name for it, someones done it. Sometimes, unfortunately, you internalize society's judgmental attitudes, causing you to question your behaviors and beliefs. I can help you before the feelings and behaviors cause damage in your life. I am an experienced Kink-Knowledgeable Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade working as a therapist. I have trained under Patrick Carnes as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. However the knowledge I have in this field is broader and less restrictive than SASH. I have worked with the Fire Department of New York since before 9/11. I'm very experienced with PTSD, Depression, and Anxiety Disorders. Also, I have vast experience helping people overcome addictions.

A Little Hypnosis LLC offers specialized hypnotherapy for individuals exploring kinks, fetishes, and the AB/DL community. Our certified experts provide safe and supportive services to help you embrace your desires and achieve your goals. Experience transformative sessions tailored to your unique needs.

Life coach specializing in relationship coaching for polyamorous, queer, and/or kinky individuals

Mental health is achieved through integration of heart, mind, body and spirit. People living any type of "alternative" lifestyle are undeserved and often misunderstood in the therapy community. I am a fully licensed professional offering confidential, individual and couples relationship counseling in the fast paced San Jose area of Silicon Valley. I understand the unique needs of clients as I am experienced in providing sensitive, unbiased support to the BDSM, D/S, Kink,LGBTQIA, Ethical Non-Monogamy/Poly, andSwinging community. I have additional training in yoga, meditation, Tantra and spirituality, hypnotherapy and EMDR. I am also trained to work with abuse survivors and those who experience PTSD from Trauma. We all face individual and relationship challenges at one time or another. Sometimes we can talk these through with a trusted friend or family member, but sometimes we need the experienced ear of a professional who can listen without judgment and help guide us through all the layers of our feelings. You may be experiencing feelings of emptiness, a feeling of anger, distance or frustration with a loved one, lack of intimacy, unhappiness with work, wanting changes in a specific area of your life but not knowing where to start, or experiencing a life transition. You may have unexpressed needs related to your sexuality and intimacy and need support on how to communicate these desires with your partner. You may want to explore therapy because your partner has desires that you dont understand. Perhaps you have begun to come to know that your own habits of thinking or relating to others are no longer working for you, or you may have inner feelings of hope and longing or even guilt and shame that are stirred from deep within. You may not know where to start, but you do know you want to change. As an open-minded, non-judgmental counselor, I offer a sex positive framework. I work with clients in a safe, collaborative environment to explore your feelings, needs, hopes, dreams, sexual desires and interests. I am comfortable talking about difficult and controversial issues, and will work with you in a practical, strengths based manner. Working with an unbiased approach with individuals and all relationship systems, I will share reflections and suggestions while also listening respectfully and carefully to make sure I understand your unique concerns. Our time together will not only be based on symptom relief, but also on life enrichment and lasting change. We will work together developing insight and awareness to find positive solutions. Relationship counseling is based on constructive conflict resolution. Sex therapy is based on authenticity, honesty, empowerment, and integrity. Safety and confidentiality are of utmost importance in psychotherapy and I am dedicated to developing trust so you can explore the issues causing distress, leading to deeper insight, awareness and healing. Please see my website for more information and ideas on how we can work together to make your life the best it can be. Connie Kay, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) LCS #61797

Simply put, my job is to help you play better in life! Whether you are looking for peak performance or starting over from square one, I can help you. If you really want to make a change and are willing to play hard for what you want, I guarantee I can help you! How can I be so sure? Because I use a pragmatic, results-oriented method that helps my clients identify & achieve their goals. I'll challenge and support you each week while holding you accountable for the decisions you make. I work with people of all ages and lifestyles in a judgment-free environment. I specialize in working with those that live a little left of center. Entertainers, Athletes, and those that practice Alternative Sexuality, Kink, LGBTQIA, Polyamory, etc. And yes, I am the guy who wrote that “Fifty Shades of Curious” book. I have helped thousands of unique people “play better in life” for over 20 Years! So what are you waiting for? When You Stop Growing, You Start Dying! So seek truth, lose fear & find the integrity to live an authentic life! Coaching & Consulting via phone, Skype or in person. "Bo is a nationally known expert on Kink, Lifestyle BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy (Polyamory), the Fetish World and LGBT issues. He is also a 20+ year veteran of the entertainment industry as a Music business manager, producer, video director as well as a comedy writer and performer. He has taught and lectured all over the country at hundreds of universities, conferences and various alternative and entertainment events. He is the winner of the Pantheon of Leather President's Award and helped thousands learn to practice Safe, Sane & Consensual BDSM for over 13 years, as the Novice Group facilitator and emeritus board member for the oldest & largest BDSM support and education group in the Country." Bo is a professional coach, certified PCC by the International Coach Federation and a CVCC certified graduate of the "Center for Coaching Mastery" at Coachville. Private & Discreet sessions via telephone at 201-825-1313 & 925-25BLAZE - (925-252-5293) Website www.AlternativeLifeCoach.com