Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) has become a life choice for an increasing number of people, both single and within relationships.
It is common, these days, to hear about ENM, open relationships, swinging and polyamory. While not exactly mainstream, it is a valid option to consider for people who struggle to make traditional monogamous relationships work for them, or find that they naturally develop romantic or sexual feelings towards more than one person in parallel.
If the below applies to you as a single individual, a couple, or a policule of any configuration, perhaps I can be of assistance:
- You are looking for answers, advice and guidance to navigate your exploration of ENM
- You are struggling with emotions that people around you cannot comprehend or help with
- Your experiences of ENM has given rise to feelings of harmful jealousy and insecurity, damaging the relationship
- You know you are non-monogamous and want to learn how to do this ethically, with honesty and integrity
- You want to know how to start, where to meet people and communicate your needs to them
I have been openly and ethically non monogamous for over 10 years, experiencing a range of relationship dynamics including open relationship, solo-poly, primary and non hierarchical poly relationships. I've lived on 4 continents, travelling extensively and immersing myself in very different cultures. For the past 5 years I have given talks to audiences ranging from 10 to 300 people and facilitated workshops on consent, polyamory, radical honesty and BDSM. I founded a London based men's support group for alternative relationships and am co-organiser of Sex Geekdon London, a sex positive discussion and information group.
What I offer:
Advice, coaching, mentoring, consulting - call it what you like. I am here to help you navigate a new world and avoid potholes in the road (which I've fallen into in the past). I offer advice in a non-judgemental, sex-positive, open minded, inclusive environment.
I can help with issues around stepping into who you really are, connecting to your authentic self and exploring new worlds of kink, BDSM, polyamory and sex positivity.
How I work:
After an initial free 20 minute consultation, I will suggest the course of action to support you. This can include regular video/phone or in-person sessions, on-call anytime support to be there when you most need help, actions plans and regular check-ins.