Dame Mas CPC

I provide trauma-informed, sex-positive therapy for individuals and couples in person and virtual in Virginia, and virtual only in South Carolina. My work focuses on intimacy challenges, sexual shame, betrayal recovery, religious or cultural trauma, and rebuilding trust in relationships. I am kink-affirming, poly-affirming, and LGBTQ+ inclusive.

My approach blends Somatic Internal Family Systems (IFS), Integrative Sex Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, helping clients connect with their bodies, release shame, and build intimacy that feels authentic and empowering.

I'm not a weekly check-in therapist. I work best as a specialist, the person you come to for the thing that's hard to find elsewhere. Most clients see me twice a month or monthly, and eventually as needed. Going deeper than weekly sessions alone can reach. At that frequency, specialist-level care is often more affordable than people expect.

In addition to ongoing therapy, I offer a 4-hour Couples Therapy Intensive an immersive session designed for focused transformation when regular therapy isn't enough. Intensives include assessment, shared-language coaching, evidence-based interventions, and a personalized plan for continued growth.

All new clients begin with a 90-minute intake session, which allows time to ground in the body, share your story, and identify the areas you most want to work on. From there, ongoing sessions may be 60 to 90 minutes, depending on your needs and pacing.

Whether you are navigating betrayal, exploring kink or polyamory, or simply seeking to reconnect with yourself and your partner(s), my practice is a space to explore, heal, and grow at the pace your system can hold.

Private pay only. Standard 60-minute fees: $200 for individuals, $250 for couples. Couples Therapy Intensive: $1,300. If cost is a barrier, reach out directly , a limited number of reduced-rate spots are considered on a case by case basis. HSA/FSA accepted. Superbills provided.