lalo nahui becerra, lmsw

ever wish you could step into a space where your sexuality, desires, and relationships are fully seen, celebrated, and understood without judgment or shame? feel empowered in a brave space where kink, polyamory, queer desire, and relational exploration are taken both seriously and playfully. 

hey, my name is lalo nahui (pronounced: lah-loh nah-wee beh-seh-rah) and use they/he pronouns with they used more often. i am a queer, trans masculine, nonbinary, polyamorous, kinky, disabled, neurodivergent mexican therapist and spiritual guide (love my alphabet soup of intersecting identities!). i hold brave empowering spaces for exploring sexuality, kink, and relational dynamics with curiosity and care.

i work with kinksters, pleasure seekers, polyamorous folks, non-monogamous humans, and anyone exploring queer sexual expression, BDSM, or alternative relationship structures. together, we can explore boundaries, desire negotiation, shame, relational trauma, consent, communication, and pleasure while honoring your embodiment, identities, and lived experiences.

my approach is grounded in understanding the complexities of kink, power dynamics, and the intersectionality of identity, including gender, race, neurodivergence, and sexuality. i blend inner child and inner elder work, somatic embodied processing, polyvagal-informed techniques, creative and expressive arts, narrative and spiritual methods, alongside clinical tools like cbt, dbt, and motivational interviewing.

embodiment, pleasure, consent, and curiosity guide every session, alongside accountability, autonomy, and joy.

this work is about coming home to yourself, honoring your whole self, reclaiming pleasure, exploring boundaries, and unpacking shame and internalized oppression. it is for those ready to lean into discomfort, stretch the edges of their desire, and reconnect with the wisdom in their body, relationships, and social world.

special care is given to queer and trans folks, bipoc and global majority communities, neurodivergent and disabled humans, artists and creatives, community organizers, migrants and children of immigrants, and anyone navigating polyamory or alternative relationship structures. stimming, questioning binaries, exploring autonomy, and practicing relational care with consent are all welcome here.

💻 virtual telehealth therapy available in new york through triska psychotherapy
(under supervision of andrew triska, lcsw)
🌎 wellness coaching + spiritual guidance offered virtually across state lines and borders

let’s co-create a life rooted in community care, radical rest, and unapologetic becoming.
for collective liberation rooted in tenderness, interdependence, and remembrance with our ancestors, spirit, and the land that holds us.