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*Affirming Therapy Center by Jennifer Rehor, LMFT, CST
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
The core value of Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) is in our name. “Affirming” is both the nature and the goal of ATC’s work as a dedicated resource supporting Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) in California. This core value is embodied by providing you with professional, open-minded care in a space that acknowledges and celebrates your unique personhood and distinct challenges.

You are welcome and valued here.

Helping you in understanding, accepting, and embracing your own beliefs, identities, and lifestyles is cornerstone in providing the support and encouragement you need to grow, to bring clarity to your choices, and to enhance your life and relationships. We focus on making you feel safe to explore your feelings and to express yourself.

Each member of the ATC team is a professionally-trained Psychotherapist qualified to address topics such as gender and identity, sex and sexual health, non-monogamy, trauma, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, BDSM, kink, and fetishes. We all have additional and continuing education in Sexual Health and in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples; certain clinicians have unique areas of expertise, including advanced specialized training in the following areas: Sex Therapy, Brainspotting and TF-CBT (for trauma), Motivational Interviewing, Family Therapy, and Gender Affirming Therapy.

This additional knowledge and training is a reflection of our commitment to GSRD. We enthusiastically affirm all GSRD identities including, but not limited to, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Heterosexual, Trans, Cis, Gender Non-Conforming, Queer, Asexual, Questioning, Intersex, Kink, BDSM, D/s, M/s, DD/lg, Fetish, Sex Work, Monogamy, Non-Monogamy, Swinging/LS, Polyamory, and a Variety of Relationship Dynamics and Family Configurations. Please see each practitioner’s summary for areas of specialization.
Business Phone Number
(619) 246-5342
Business Contact Email
Team@AffirmingTherapyCenter.com
Business Address
3914 Murphy Canyon Road Suite A201
California 92123
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
*Kim Eisenberg, LCSW*
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kim Eisenberg
Business Excerpt
I provide poly, kink, and queer celebratory therapy for people balancing the pressures of daily life while navigating the complex intersections of personal identity and relational structures that challenge the status quo.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with training in Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Trauma Treatment, and Sex Therapy.
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
619-800-6304
Business Contact Email
kim@kimeisenberg.com
Business Tags
Business Address
California 92105
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit cards, debit cards, HSA cards.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Affirming Matters LLC – Online Therapy
Name of Primary Practitioner
River Tu
Business Excerpt
I believe the professional relationship we form together is the building block for the connection that is needed to change, grow, and evolve. My role as a therapist is to set up a safe and affirming space for you to tell your story and for you to explore ways to unlock your hidden gems.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor, Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, EMDR Trained
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
469.278.6426
Business Contact Email
thrive@affirmingmatters.com
Business Address
Texas 75243
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Card, Insurance Reimbursement, Reduced Rates
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
All Things Autie
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Minna Abassi
Business Excerpt
An #ActuallyAutistic coach and consultant. Helping autistic and ADHD adults create sustainable and authentic lives through neurodiversity-affirming life coaching. Guiding businesses (and beyond) towards greater understanding and inclusivity by sharing the autistic lived-experience from an I/O Psychology lens.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
MA Industrial and Organizational Psychology, Certified ADA Coordinator
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
Minna@AllThingsAutie.com
Business Address
California 91321
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo, Paypal, Square
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am actively apart of the kink and poly communities.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Innerlight Counselling and Amour Partagé
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. T. S. Michaels
Business Excerpt
Amour Partagé is a unique, sophisticated and intense training style for those interested in the Domination and submissision lifestyle as well as BDSM as a whole. AP holds a rich history in its foundation, teachings and structure that will help each person embrace their role in a much deeper way, as well as, building a stronger foundation within themselves.Amour Partagé is different in its approach than mainstream styles of alternative lifestyle training. Please review the Introduction page to learn more. Amour Partagé is not for everyone and each person interested in becoming a student must pass through two vetting stages. The first is an introduction class which covers all of Amour Partagé's history and training options. It will also help you define what role fits you as a person and determine whether Amour Partagé can help you meet your lifestyle goals.

Please note that the original Amour Partagé website is now located at www.bdsmtraining.org
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
PhD, LPsy, LST, LMFT, LCP
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
765-205-6630
Business Contact Email
trinity@bdsmtraining.org
Business Tags
Business Address
Indiana 47906
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Card, PayPal, CashApp, Bank Transfer
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Over 30 years in lifestyle
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Austin Inclusive Counseling, PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Crystal Frederick, MA, LPC
Business Excerpt
Crystal works from an attachment based, trauma informed, and relational perspective and specialized in working with Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diverse (GSRD) individuals and couples.

Crystal’s passion is helping people who feel like they are in transition in their life; whether healing from past trauma, navigating relationship changes, or exploring lifestyle issues related to being part of LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and/or kink communities. She has worked extensively with people exploring gender and sexual identities by offering radical acceptance, infinite curiosity, and deep compassion to those seeking to discover their authentic life. She also has significant experience working with sexual assault and domestic violence survivors by supporting their healing process and working through shame to find empowerment.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
EMDR Trained
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
512-294-8752
Business Contact Email
AustinInclusiveCounseling@gmail.com
Business Address
Telehealth only at this time
Texas 78745
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Trainings have included Polyamory, Consenual Non-monogamy, Kink/BDsM, Non-binary, and Sexual Anxiety
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Kez Mayers, MA, LMHCA, NCC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kez Mayers, MA, LMHCA, NCC
Business Excerpt
Integrate the mind and body, and rediscover your sexual self. I empower clients to rebuild sexual confidence and create tools for success.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Gonzaga University - Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
509-844-9336
Business Contact Email
kez@bodyandbindcounseling.com
Business Address
1616 W Wellesley Ave, Suite B
Spokane, WA 99205
Washington 99205
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Check, Credit, Debit
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
"K"
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Caoimhea Keivah
Business Excerpt
Spiritual Advisor, Life Coach, Health and Wellness, Educator, and Ambassador: Offering Diversified & Inclusion Services.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
18575762674
Business Contact Email
seileach@protonmail.com
Business Address
Global Online
00000
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
paypal.me/Caoimheak
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
over 25 years
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Claudia Six PhD
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Claudia Six
Business Excerpt
Together we'll figure out who you truly are as an erotic being, and how to fit that into your life in a way that works. Let's set you up for success and authenticity.
Education/Training/Certifications
MA, PhD, Board certified by American Board of Sexology
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(415)453-6218
Business Contact Email
claudia@drsix.net
Business Tags
Business Address
California 94901
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
CC
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Sarah Levinson
Business Excerpt
Counseling on consensual non-monogamy, sexuality, lgbtq+, communication, and intimacy. Creative Relating also focuses on mood related challenges, including anxiety and depression.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LMSW, Esq, Human Awareness Institute, Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
646-844-4421
Business Contact Email
sarah@creativerealting.com
Business Address
18 E 16th St suite 503 office 13
New York 10003
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Accept cash, paypal, venmo, credit/debit, and personal check
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am poly and I specialize in opening up a relationship, solo poly, poly and children, relationship anarchy, and consent.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Devyn Stone, Affirming Matters LLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Devyn Stone
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Affirming Matters is a private practice offering counseling and coaching services. Devyn Stone is our resident kink educator and alternative lifestyles coach.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Certified Professional Life, Relationship, Self Awareness, and Emotional Intelligence Coach
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
469-625-6309
Business Contact Email
MrDevynStone@gmail.com
Business Address
Colorado 80917
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit/Debit Card, PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, Reduced Rates
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Dr. Ryan G. Witherspoon- Clinical Psychologist
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ryan G. Witherspoon, Ph.D.
Business Excerpt
I am a clinical psychologist in CA (PSY32022) who provides kink-affirming (and polyamory/open-affirming) therapy to adults and relationships. I specialize in kink and non-monogamy, mood and anxiety issues, relationship problems, and complex or attachment trauma, using a caring, in-depth approach.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Psychologist (CA PSY32022), Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, MA in Clinical Psychology, MA in Psychology, Two-year post-doctoral training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
626-559-0939
Business Contact Email
ryan@ryanwitherspoon.com
Business Address
California 91104
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes, Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept cash, check, credit/debit cards, and most HSA cards. I offer a limited number of sliding-scale (low fee) slots depending on availability.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a nationally-recognized expert in kink and consensual non-monogamy, as well as an active researcher, author, and clinical trainer in the field.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
F/R Consulting LLC
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
Boutique marketing firm focused on increasing your sales and membership numbers. Personable, professional and definitely open-minded.
Education/Training/Certifications
We have over 30+ years in IT, marketing and process optimization training and certifications. If interested, please contact us for a full list. Thank you!
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(469) 430-8874
Business Contact Email
fr@consultdfw.com
Business Address
Plano, TX
Texas 75023
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo and Zelle payments preferred. Paypal, cash and check payments also accepted.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Not only are we open-minded, we live the lifestyle.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Have wifi, will travel. We can work with organizations both in the US and worldwide
Gary D. Alexander
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Gary D. Alexander, MS, MFT, CADC III
Business Excerpt
Working with individual, couples, and poly-families since 2002. Specializing in the Kink, Lifestyle, Poly-Family, and LGBTQAI Communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.S. Counseling, PhD (abd) Depth Psychology, National Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor, Level II Complex Trauma Practitioner, AAMFT Approved Supervisor for student and Intern counselors.
Business Phone Number
(360) 836-4298
Business Contact Email
therapy@garydalexander.com
Business Address
108 SE 124th Ave
Washington 98684
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I can bill most other insurances for out-of-network benefits. Please check with your plan first.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a Kink Knowledgeable professional as well as Kink community member.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. Meara Thombre
Business Excerpt
I am Licensed Psychologist who provides individual and intimate relationship/couples counseling via telehealth to those residing in Florida.  I am a sex positive, Poly/CNM/ENM affirming, and Kink/BDSM competent provider.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
PhD in Counseling Psychology
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
8132910969
Business Contact Email
dr.meara@heartfeltpsychology.com
Business Address
Florida 33617
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am in-network for Aetna, UnitedHealthcare, Oxford Health Plans, UMR, Oscar, and UHC Student Resources. I accept card payment.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I wrote my dissertation on the consensual non-monogamous population. I chose this topic due to my passion in fighting unjust societal shame and stigma.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Inclusive Insight Psychotherapy and Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Michael Jeske, LSW
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Northeastern Illinois University
Business Phone Number
(773) 245-0918
Business Contact Email
michael@chicagoiipc.com
Business Address
840 Irving Park Rd
Suite 302
Chicago, IL. 60613
Illinois 60613
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
BCBS PPO, Aetna, CampusCare, Cigna, Self-Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
John Pendal
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
John Pendal (he/ him)
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Online kink mentoring and life coaching from professional BDSM educator and former International Mr Leather, John Pendal - either as video calls to individuals and relationship groups, or workshops to larger numbers. John has 18 years experience teaching BDSM workshops around the world.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Worked as a professional BDSM educator worldwide since 2004. FAA Level 2 Award in First Aid for Mental Health. Accredited coach with Animas Centre for Coaching. Associate Coach with Thriving Autistic
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
johnpendal.coach@gmail.com
Business Address
Worthing
West Sussex
England BN12 4UZ
United Kingdom
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, Revolut, Wise or bank transfer.
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a white, cisgender, kinky gay man
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Additional Location Data
Based in the UK -clients worldwide
Kevin Drab
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kevin Drab
Business Excerpt
Experienced counselng for alt sexual lifestyles
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.A., M.Ed., Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified EMDR Therapist, Certified Advanced Addiction Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
215-527-2904
Business Contact Email
kjdrab@comcast.net
Business Address
16 N. Franklin Street, Ste #100
Doylestown, PA 18901

Pennsylvania 18901
USA
Internet Based Business
No
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
cheque or cash; receipt for reimbursement from ins company when applicable
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Many years of experience involved in lifestyles
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
www.liebe-befreit.de
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Andrea Buch
Business Excerpt
I’m a psychologist, social worker and systemic consult (DGSF, in training), I offer professional online counseling that covers topics such as open relationships, relationship anarchy, polyamory, sex-positive lifestyle, as well as topics such as BDSM and fetish.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Psychologist (M. Sc.), Social Worker, systemic consult (DGSF, in training)
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
kontakt@liebe-befreit.de
Business Address
36037
Germany
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, bank transfer
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
sex positive, polyamory, relationship anarchy
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Love Positive Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Anna Baxter
Business Excerpt
Anna Baxter, LPC is a sex-positive counselor passionate about providing a safe space for clients to find internal and external peace by living and loving more authentically. They particularly love working with transgender/gender non-conforming youth (13-25) and people in alternative relationships (polyamory/BDSM) as they shed cultural expectations around gender and sexuality.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Arts in Community Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
678-446-8653
Business Contact Email
anna@lovepositivecounseling.com
Business Address
700 Old Roswell Lakes Pkwy Suite 300
Georgia 30076
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, check or credit card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Frequently educate on kink and polyamory
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable