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Dr. Miro Gudelsky
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. Miro
Business Excerpt
Sex Therapist, Couples Counselor and Intimacy Expert specializing in Sex Work and both professional and lifestyle Kink.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Doctorate of Human Sexuality
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
323.497.6617
Business Contact Email
mirogudelsky@gmail.com
Business Address
Texas 78642
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo, PayPal, CashApp, Zelle
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Dr. Ryan G. Witherspoon- Clinical Psychologist
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ryan G. Witherspoon, Ph.D.
Business Excerpt
I am a clinical psychologist in CA (PSY32022) who provides kink-affirming (and polyamory/open-affirming) therapy to adults and relationships. I specialize in kink and non-monogamy, mood and anxiety issues, relationship problems, and complex or attachment trauma, using a caring, in-depth approach.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Psychologist (CA PSY32022), Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, MA in Clinical Psychology, MA in Psychology, Two-year post-doctoral training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
626-559-0939
Business Contact Email
ryan@ryanwitherspoon.com
Business Address
California 91104
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes, Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept cash, check, credit/debit cards, and most HSA cards. I offer a limited number of sliding-scale (low fee) slots depending on availability.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a nationally-recognized expert in kink and consensual non-monogamy, as well as an active researcher, author, and clinical trainer in the field.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Elite Bondage Gear | Hub Of Bondage Gears
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Hub Of Bondage Gear
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Elite Bondage Gear crafts premium BDSM gear with style, comfort, and durability. Explore with confidence—your pleasure is our passion.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
No
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
+44 7564651482
Business Contact Email
elitebondagegear1@gmail.com
Business Address
22 Wilton Road SOUTHAMPTON, SO15 5LB United Kingdom
Shropshire, England SO15 5LB
United Kingdom
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes, No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Apple Pay, Google Pay, Mastercard, Paypal, Shop pay
Poly Awareness Level
Friendly
Kink Awareness Level
Friendly
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Emily Piellusch
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Emily Piellusch
Business Excerpt
I provide trauma-informed care to address a range of concerns, including anxiety, neurodivergence, self-esteem, body image, addictions, and challenges with boundaries and codependency. I specialize in working with teen and adult survivors of sexual abuse and relational violence, HSPs, and members of ENM, kink/BDSM, LGBTQ+, and sex work communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LLMSW
Business Phone Number
(734) 290-0192
Business Contact Email
emilypiellusch@belletowergroup.com
Business Address
Ypsilanti, Michigan
All therapy sessions online.
Michigan 48197
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Aetna, BlueCross and BlueShield, McLaren, Molina Healthcare, Priority Health, Private Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Equinox Sex and Relationship Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kristyn Wolf, MSEd, LPCC-S, CCTP, CSITP
Business Excerpt
Specializing with individuals, couples, and non-monogamous relationships. Allied with the LGBTQ, kink, and neurodivergent communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
330.398.9878
Business Contact Email
kwolfcounseling@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
Telehealth (Ohio) and In-Person (4800 Market St. Unit C, Youngstown, OH 44512)
Ohio 44512
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Insurance: Aetna Anthem BlueCross and BlueShield Caresource Centivo Cigna FSA, HSA, HRA Humana Medicare Advantage Medical Mutual Medicare Optum VA Oscar Oxford United Healthcare/Optum *Please note I am not able to accept Medicaid and Tricare at this time.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
F/R Consulting LLC
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
Boutique marketing firm focused on increasing your sales and membership numbers. Personable, professional and definitely open-minded.
Education/Training/Certifications
We have over 30+ years in IT, marketing and process optimization training and certifications. If interested, please contact us for a full list. Thank you!
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(469) 430-8874
Business Contact Email
fr@consultdfw.com
Business Address
Plano, TX
Texas 75023
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo and Zelle payments preferred. Paypal, cash and check payments also accepted.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Not only are we open-minded, we live the lifestyle.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Have wifi, will travel. We can work with organizations both in the US and worldwide
Gary D. Alexander
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Gary D. Alexander, MS, MFT, CADC III
Business Excerpt
Working with individual, couples, and poly-families since 2002. Specializing in the Kink, Lifestyle, Poly-Family, and LGBTQAI Communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.S. Counseling, PhD (abd) Depth Psychology, National Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor, Level II Complex Trauma Practitioner, AAMFT Approved Supervisor for student and Intern counselors.
Business Phone Number
(360) 836-4298
Business Contact Email
therapy@garydalexander.com
Business Address
6523 California Ave SW #132
Washington 98136
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I can bill most other insurances for out-of-network benefits. Please check with your plan first.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a Kink Knowledgeable professional as well as Kink community member.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Guiding Path Counseling, PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Brie Chandler, LPC
Business Excerpt
I am a Licensed Professional Counseling in Mesa, Arizona and provide services to individual adults. My areas of specialty are complex trauma, kink and BDSM-affirming therapy, and relationship challenges. I practice from a trauma-informed, sex positive, and attachment focused lens, primarily working with clients through parts work (IFS).
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor, Kink Conscious Professional Certification, Certified Sex Therapist (In Progress)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
602-562-7983
Business Tags
Business Address
1921 S Alma School
Rd Suite 312
Mesa, AZ 85210
Arizona 85210
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am private pay only and not credentialed with any insurances. My rate is $150 per 50 minute session. I have a limited number of sliding scale availability with a sliding cap at $120 per session.
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
photo of ren lee, a chinese american therapist with light skin, dark hair, with glasses. they are wearing a button up and are in front of a bright window and green plants
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ren Lee, LCSW
Business Excerpt
Ren Lee, LCSW (they/them) specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community and BIPOC around issues of race, gender, sexuality, neurodivergence, grief and loss, trauma, life transitions, relationships, polyamory, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and other alternative lifestyles. They believe in community care, liberation, growth, joy, healing, and justice.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
LCSW
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
929-314-3693
Business Contact Email
ren@harmonytherapy.space
Business Address
New York 10001
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Out of network only. Reduced rate/sliding scale available. Superbills provided.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Heartfelt Psychology, LLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. Meara Thombre
Business Excerpt
Hi! I'm a Licensed Psychologist with specialties in emotional abuse, trauma, depression, anxiety, and sexual functioning/wellness. My treatment focuses on helping clients understand and use their emotions more adaptively. I also integrate other evidence-based therapies to match what is likely to work best for each client as an individual.

My experience in sex/kink comes from originally wanting to be a sex researcher, but realizing I just like helping others on a more individual level. I also wrote my dissertation on CNM/ENM. I identify as sex positive, Poly/CNM/ENM affirming, and Kink/BDSM competent provider. I don't think that clients should have to separate out parts of themselves, so I love to support those that have complicated concerns that involve sex and sexuality.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
PhD in Counseling Psychology
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
8132910969
Business Contact Email
dr.meara@heartfeltpsychology.com
Business Address
Florida 33612
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am in-network with Aetna and can provide superbills for reimbursement for those that are out-of-network.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I wrote my dissertation on the consensual non-monogamous population. I chose this topic due to my passion in fighting unjust societal shame and stigma.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Houston’s Therapist for Kinky People
Name of Primary Practitioner
Denis "Woodja" Flanigan, Ph.D.
Business Excerpt
Houston psychologist specializing in kink-affirming therapy for individuals and partners of all orientations. 20+ years of clinical experience, complemented by long-term leather community involvement including state title-holding and three years as Misfits Houston president. Telehealth throughout Texas.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Counseling Psychologist
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
713-589-9804
Business Contact Email
denisflanigan@aol.com
Business Address
2211 Norfolk St Suite 206
Texas 77098
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Visa, MC, AMEX, Zelle, cash, check
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Personal experience in both kink and polyamory
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Inclusive Insight Psychotherapy and Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Michael Jeske, LSW
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Northeastern Illinois University
Business Phone Number
(773) 245-0918
Business Contact Email
michael@chicagoiipc.com
Business Address
840 Irving Park Rd
Suite 302
Chicago, IL. 60613
Illinois 60613
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
BCBS PPO, Aetna, CampusCare, Cigna, Self-Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Jennifer Masri
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Jennifer Masri
Business Excerpt
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have been licensed since 2006. I work with individuals, couples, & non-monogamous relationship structures. My specialties include relationship and communication work with knowledge and experience in power exchange, bdsm, and ethical non-monogamy.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
M.A. in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
8184163039
Business Contact Email
jenn@akinkshrink.com
Business Address
California 90249
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, venmo, zelle, credit card via square
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Jessica Jarman
Business Excerpt
I am a therapist that works exclusively with the Queer, Kinky and Ethically Non-monogamous communities.
Education/Training/Certifications
M.Ed
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(803) 702-8443
Business Tags
Business Address
South Carolina 29205
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
$135 per session. Private pay.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Aware enough to distinguish between Kink, BDSM and Polyamory. Kink and BDSM are erotic in nature. They describe erotic activity that falls outside of the "vanilla" category. BDSM is a form of Erotic play that can be deeply meaningful and connective. Polyamory is a way of structuring your intimate relationships, a way of loving multiple partners fully and ethically. I am aware enough as someone who falls under all three labels to have concerns about the way I love and structure my relationships with my partners and my metamors being paired with ways of expressing sexuality. Incase you missed it- thats shade. Polyamory is not a kink, nor is it a fetish. To pair it with sexuality excludes asexual folks, platonic partners and rich metamour relationships. Not cute, bae.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Additional Location Data
USA, SC, Columbia
John Pendal
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
John Pendal (he/ him)
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Online kink mentoring and life coaching from professional BDSM educator and former International Mr Leather, John Pendal - either as video calls to individuals and relationship groups, or workshops to larger numbers. John has over 20 years experience teaching BDSM workshops around the world.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Worked as a professional BDSM educator worldwide since 2004. Accredited coach with Animas Centre for Coaching. FAA Level 2 Award in First Aid for Mental Health. FAA Level 3 Award in Supervising First Aid for Mental Health. Associate coach with Thriving Autistic. Member of the International Coaching Federation
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
johnpendal.coach@gmail.com
Business Address
Worthing
West Sussex
England BN12 4UZ
United Kingdom
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, Revolut, Wise or bank transfer.
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a white, cisgender, kinky gay man
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Additional Location Data
Based in the UK -clients worldwide
Kathy O’Hearn, MFT
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kathy O'Hearn
Business Excerpt
Therapy for individuals, couples and relationships of all kinds for those who identify as kinky, LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, or who hold other non-heteronormative identities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Family Therapy
Business Phone Number
267-293-9178
Business Contact Email
kfotherapy@gmail.com
Business Address
255 S. 17th St
Suite 2200
Pennsylvania 19107
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo, credit card, HSA, FSA
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kevin Drab
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kevin Drab
Business Excerpt
Experienced counselng for alt sexual lifestyles
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.A., M.Ed., Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified EMDR Therapist, Certified Advanced Addiction Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
215-527-2904
Business Contact Email
kjdrab@comcast.net
Business Address
16 N. Franklin Street, Ste #100
Doylestown, PA 18901

Pennsylvania 18901
USA
Internet Based Business
No
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
cheque or cash; receipt for reimbursement from ins company when applicable
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Many years of experience involved in lifestyles
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kim Eisenberg, LCSW
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kim Eisenberg
Business Excerpt
I provide poly, kink, and queer celebratory therapy for people balancing the pressures of daily life while navigating the complex intersections of personal identity and relational structures that challenge the status quo.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with training in Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Trauma Treatment, and Sex Therapy.
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
619-800-6304
Business Contact Email
kim@kimeisenberg.com
Business Tags
Business Address
California 92105
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit cards, debit cards, HSA cards.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kim Wright, LCSW
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kim Wright, LCSW
Business Excerpt
Sex-positive, kink-aware therapy for adults exploring relationships, sexuality, and identity beyond traditional expectations. Support for BDSM/kink dynamics, consensual non-monogamy and polyamory, relationship transitions, anxiety, depression, and self-esteem.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LCSW
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
2678887511
Business Contact Email
kim@kimwrightwellness.com
Business Address
Therapy services are available via telehealth for clients located in Pennsylvania & New Jersey.
Coaching + consultation services may be available for individuals located outside these states.
Pennsylvania 19438
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes, No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Private pay. Credit cards, Venmo, and PayPal accepted. Out-of-network benefits may be available depending on your insurance plan. Superbills can be provided for possible reimbursement. Some insurances accepted.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Knowledge is Pleasure
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Michelle Lopez, MSW, LCSW, CST, ABS
Business Excerpt
Knowledge is Pleasure is an inclusive sex and kink education and therapy practice providing affirming, evidence-based support to explore sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure without shame.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Social Work (2016) | Licensed Clinical Social Worker (2019) Sex Therapy Certification | MSTI (2021) American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists Certification (2024) Board Certified Sexologist | American Board of Sexology (2025)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(407) 720-9789
Business Contact Email
michellelopez.lcsw@outlook.com
Business Address
2051 West Prairie Circle
Florida 32725
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Self-pay, UnitedHealthcare/Optum, Cigna, Aetna
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable