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Emily Piellusch
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Emily Piellusch
Business Excerpt
I provide trauma-informed care to address a range of concerns, including anxiety, neurodivergence, self-esteem, body image, addictions, and challenges with boundaries and codependency. I specialize in working with teen and adult survivors of sexual abuse and relational violence, HSPs, and members of ENM, kink/BDSM, LGBTQ+, and sex work communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
LLMSW
Business Phone Number
(734) 290-0192
Business Contact Email
emilypiellusch@belletowergroup.com
Business Address
Ypsilanti, Michigan
All therapy sessions online.
Michigan 48197
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Aetna, BlueCross and BlueShield, McLaren, Molina Healthcare, Priority Health, Private Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Equinox Sex and Relationship Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kristyn Wolf, MSEd, LPCC-S, CCTP, CSITP
Business Excerpt
Specializing with individuals, couples, and non-monogamous relationships. Allied with the LGBTQ, kink, and neurodivergent communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
330.398.9878
Business Contact Email
kwolfcounseling@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
Telehealth (Ohio) and In-Person (4800 Market St. Unit C, Youngstown, OH 44512)
Ohio 44512
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Insurance: Aetna Anthem BlueCross and BlueShield Caresource Centivo Cigna FSA, HSA, HRA Humana Medicare Advantage Medical Mutual Medicare Optum VA Oscar Oxford United Healthcare/Optum *Please note I am not able to accept Medicaid and Tricare at this time.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
F/R Consulting LLC
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Group
Business Excerpt
Boutique marketing firm focused on increasing your sales and membership numbers. Personable, professional and definitely open-minded.
Education/Training/Certifications
We have over 30+ years in IT, marketing and process optimization training and certifications. If interested, please contact us for a full list. Thank you!
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(469) 430-8874
Business Contact Email
fr@consultdfw.com
Business Address
Plano, TX
Texas 75023
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo and Zelle payments preferred. Paypal, cash and check payments also accepted.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Not only are we open-minded, we live the lifestyle.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Have wifi, will travel. We can work with organizations both in the US and worldwide
Gary D. Alexander
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Gary D. Alexander, MS, MFT, CADC III
Business Excerpt
Working with individual, couples, and poly-families since 2002. Specializing in the Kink, Lifestyle, Poly-Family, and LGBTQAI Communities.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.S. Counseling, PhD (abd) Depth Psychology, National Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor, Level II Complex Trauma Practitioner, AAMFT Approved Supervisor for student and Intern counselors.
Business Phone Number
(360) 836-4298
Business Contact Email
therapy@garydalexander.com
Business Address
6523 California Ave SW #132
Washington 98136
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I can bill most other insurances for out-of-network benefits. Please check with your plan first.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a Kink Knowledgeable professional as well as Kink community member.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Guiding Path Counseling, PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Brie Chandler, LPC
Business Excerpt
I am a Licensed Professional Counseling in Mesa, Arizona and provide services to individual adults. My areas of specialty are complex trauma, kink and BDSM-affirming therapy, and relationship challenges. I practice from a trauma-informed, sex positive, and attachment focused lens, primarily working with clients through parts work (IFS).
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor, Kink Conscious Professional Certification, Certified Sex Therapist (In Progress)
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
602-562-7983
Business Tags
Business Address
1921 S Alma School
Rd Suite 312
Mesa, AZ 85210
Arizona 85210
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am private pay only and not credentialed with any insurances. My rate is $150 per 50 minute session. I have a limited number of sliding scale availability with a sliding cap at $120 per session.
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
photo of ren lee, a chinese american therapist with light skin, dark hair, with glasses. they are wearing a button up and are in front of a bright window and green plants
Name of Primary Practitioner
Ren Lee, LCSW
Business Excerpt
Ren Lee, LCSW (they/them) specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community and BIPOC around issues of race, gender, sexuality, neurodivergence, grief and loss, trauma, life transitions, relationships, polyamory, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and other alternative lifestyles. They believe in community care, liberation, growth, joy, healing, and justice.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
LCSW
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
929-314-3693
Business Contact Email
ren@harmonytherapy.space
Business Address
New York 10001
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Out of network only. Reduced rate/sliding scale available. Superbills provided.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Name of Primary Practitioner
Dr. Meara Thombre
Business Excerpt
I am Licensed Psychologist who provides individual and intimate relationship/couples counseling via telehealth to those residing in Florida.  I am a sex positive, Poly/CNM/ENM affirming, and Kink/BDSM competent provider.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
PhD in Counseling Psychology
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
8132910969
Business Contact Email
dr.meara@heartfeltpsychology.com
Business Address
Florida 33617
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am in-network for Aetna, UnitedHealthcare, Oxford Health Plans, UMR, Oscar, and UHC Student Resources. I accept card payment.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I wrote my dissertation on the consensual non-monogamous population. I chose this topic due to my passion in fighting unjust societal shame and stigma.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Inclusive Insight Psychotherapy and Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Michael Jeske, LSW
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Northeastern Illinois University
Business Phone Number
(773) 245-0918
Business Contact Email
michael@chicagoiipc.com
Business Address
840 Irving Park Rd
Suite 302
Chicago, IL. 60613
Illinois 60613
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
BCBS PPO, Aetna, CampusCare, Cigna, Self-Pay
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Jennifer Masri
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Jennifer Masri
Business Excerpt
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have been licensed since 2006. I work with individuals, couples, & non-monogamous relationship structures. My specialties include relationship and communication work with knowledge and experience in power exchange, bdsm, and ethical non-monogamy.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
M.A. in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
8184163039
Business Contact Email
jenn@akinkshrink.com
Business Address
California 90249
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, venmo, zelle, credit card via square
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Jessica Jarman
Business Excerpt
I am a therapist that works exclusively with the Queer, Kinky and Ethically Non-monogamous communities.
Education/Training/Certifications
M.Ed
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(803) 702-8443
Business Tags
Business Address
South Carolina 29205
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
$135 per session. Private pay.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Aware enough to distinguish between Kink, BDSM and Polyamory. Kink and BDSM are erotic in nature. They describe erotic activity that falls outside of the "vanilla" category. BDSM is a form of Erotic play that can be deeply meaningful and connective. Polyamory is a way of structuring your intimate relationships, a way of loving multiple partners fully and ethically. I am aware enough as someone who falls under all three labels to have concerns about the way I love and structure my relationships with my partners and my metamors being paired with ways of expressing sexuality. Incase you missed it- thats shade. Polyamory is not a kink, nor is it a fetish. To pair it with sexuality excludes asexual folks, platonic partners and rich metamour relationships. Not cute, bae.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Additional Location Data
USA, SC, Columbia
John Pendal
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
John Pendal (he/ him)
Business Category
Business Excerpt
Online kink mentoring and life coaching from professional BDSM educator and former International Mr Leather, John Pendal - either as video calls to individuals and relationship groups, or workshops to larger numbers. John has over 20 years experience teaching BDSM workshops around the world.
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
Worked as a professional BDSM educator worldwide since 2004. Accredited coach with Animas Centre for Coaching. FAA Level 2 Award in First Aid for Mental Health. FAA Level 3 Award in Supervising First Aid for Mental Health. Associate coach with Thriving Autistic. Member of the International Coaching Federation
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
johnpendal.coach@gmail.com
Business Address
Worthing
West Sussex
England BN12 4UZ
United Kingdom
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, Revolut, Wise or bank transfer.
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a white, cisgender, kinky gay man
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Friendly
Additional Location Data
Based in the UK -clients worldwide
Kathy O’Hearn, MFT
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kathy O'Hearn
Business Excerpt
Therapy for individuals, couples and relationships of all kinds for those who identify as kinky, LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, or who hold other non-heteronormative identities.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Family Therapy
Business Phone Number
267-293-9178
Business Contact Email
kfotherapy@gmail.com
Business Address
255 S. 17th St
Suite 2200
Pennsylvania 19107
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Venmo, credit card, HSA, FSA
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kevin Drab
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kevin Drab
Business Excerpt
Experienced counselng for alt sexual lifestyles
Gender of Practitioner
Male
Education/Training/Certifications
M.A., M.Ed., Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified EMDR Therapist, Certified Advanced Addiction Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
215-527-2904
Business Contact Email
kjdrab@comcast.net
Business Address
16 N. Franklin Street, Ste #100
Doylestown, PA 18901

Pennsylvania 18901
USA
Internet Based Business
No
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
cheque or cash; receipt for reimbursement from ins company when applicable
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Many years of experience involved in lifestyles
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kim Eisenberg, LCSW
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Kim Eisenberg
Business Excerpt
I provide poly, kink, and queer celebratory therapy for people balancing the pressures of daily life while navigating the complex intersections of personal identity and relational structures that challenge the status quo.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with training in Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Trauma Treatment, and Sex Therapy.
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
619-800-6304
Business Contact Email
kim@kimeisenberg.com
Business Tags
Business Address
California 92105
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit cards, debit cards, HSA cards.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
selfie of lalo nahui smiling wearing a beige button up
Name of Primary Practitioner
lalo nahui becerra
Business Excerpt
step into a space where kink, non monogamy, alternative relationships, and queer liberatory desire take center stage. lalo nahui, lmsw (they/he) holds playful, kink-affirming spaces for queer, trans, gender fluid, non-monogamous, and pleasure-seeking humans. somatic and integrative psychotherapy, wellness coaching, and spiritual guidance meet consent, embodiment, and unapologetic desire. radical curiosity and participation required, fun guaranteed. a brave, joy-filled space to come home to yourself through embodied pleasure.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
master of social work, silver school of social work, new york university, 2023 bachelor of arts, english literature with an emphasis in creative writing and minor in sexuality studies, san francisco state university, 2017 licensed master social worker #121004 new york state
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
619-247-7290
Business Contact Email
lalonahuibecerra@gmail.com
Business Address
remote telehealth virtual therapy for new york state residents.

triska psychotherapy address:
208 e. 31st st.
bsmt office
new york, ny 10016
New York 10016
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
i currently offer out-of-network therapy and private pay services. if you have out-of-network benefits, i can provide superbills for potential reimbursement. if you do not have out-of-network benefits, i can support you in coordinating with your insurance to request a pre-authorization and apply for a single case agreement or network gap exception. when approved, this can allow you to pay your in-network copay while your insurance covers the remaining cost. i also coordinate with therapy funds such as the loveland foundation and am open to working with grants, sponsorships, or other approved funding sources that help cover the cost of care. outside of these options, i offer a sliding scale based on your financial situation and am always open to discussing accessibility and affordability. psychotherapy (new york state only), wellness and spiritual coaching sliding scale rates vary on whether services are individual, relationship, or family-based.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
i’m polyamorous and kinky myself! i get the joys, challenges, and fun of non-monogamy, kink, and queer desire, and i love holding brave, playful spaces to explore them.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
wellness coaching + spiritual guidance offered virtually across state lines and borders
www.liebe-befreit.de
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Andrea Buch
Business Excerpt
I’m a psychologist, social worker and systemic consult (DGSF, in training), I offer professional online counseling that covers topics such as open relationships, relationship anarchy, polyamory, sex-positive lifestyle, as well as topics such as BDSM and fetish.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Psychologist (M. Sc.), Social Worker, systemic consult (DGSF, in training)
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
kontakt@liebe-befreit.de
Business Address
36037
Germany
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, bank transfer
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
sex positive, polyamory, relationship anarchy
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Log Pose Counseling
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Amanda Murray
Business Excerpt
Virtual individual therapy for adults 18 years old and up. EMDR trained, LGBTQ+ inclusive, poly-affirming, kink-affirming.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Phone Number
4043066430
Business Contact Email
amandamurraycctp@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
3050 Five Forks Trickum Rd SW
Ste D509
Georgia 30047
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
HSA, FSA, Visa, Mastercard
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Love Positive Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Anna Baxter
Business Excerpt
Anna Baxter, LPC is a sex-positive counselor passionate about providing a safe space for clients to find internal and external peace by living and loving more authentically. They particularly love working with transgender/gender non-conforming youth (13-25) and people in alternative relationships (polyamory/BDSM) as they shed cultural expectations around gender and sexuality.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Arts in Community Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
678-446-8653
Business Contact Email
anna@lovepositivecounseling.com
Business Address
700 Old Roswell Lakes Pkwy Suite 300
Georgia 30076
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, check or credit card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Frequently educate on kink and polyamory
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Photo of human with tan skin and a shaved head, sporting bright colored clothing, several tattoos and a smile.
Business Excerpt
Special interests include: Unpacking attachment wounds using IFS; Transition stages in Poly/ENM; Freedom from shame regarding sex & kink; Impacts of disability; Relationships to health, disordered eating, and/or fatness from a fat liberatory and body neutrality lens.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
LMSW
Business Phone Number
929-244-3295
Business Contact Email
lowell@expressyourselftherapynyc.com
Business Address
Virtual
New York 11237
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit Cards. Superbills provided for out-of-network benefits (no in-network coverage)
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
longstanding polyamorous & kink community member
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Meaningful Musings PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Malory Lund, MS, LMHCA, NCC
Business Excerpt
I am a sex-positive, strictly LGBTQIA+ affirming therapist passionate about helping individuals and couples improve the quality of their relationships and intimate lives.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Eastern Washington University - Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Business Phone Number
5097240244
Business Contact Email
malorylundcounseling@gmail.com
Business Address
1616 W Wellesley Ave Spokane, WA Suite B
Washington 99205
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Check, Credit, Debit. I am happy to discuss what we can do to help keep therapy affordable. Please reach out with any questions.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware