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Name of Primary Practitioner
lalo nahui becerra
Business Excerpt
step into a space where kink, non monogamy, alternative relationships, and queer liberatory desire take center stage. lalo nahui, lmsw (they/he) holds playful, kink-affirming spaces for queer, trans, gender fluid, non-monogamous, and pleasure-seeking humans. somatic and integrative psychotherapy, wellness coaching, and spiritual guidance meet consent, embodiment, and unapologetic desire. radical curiosity and participation required, fun guaranteed. a brave, joy-filled space to come home to yourself through embodied pleasure.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
master of social work, silver school of social work, new york university, 2023 bachelor of arts, english literature with an emphasis in creative writing and minor in sexuality studies, san francisco state university, 2017 licensed master social worker #121004 new york state
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
619-247-7290
Business Contact Email
lalonahuibecerra@gmail.com
Business Address
remote telehealth virtual therapy for new york state residents.

triska psychotherapy address:
208 e. 31st st.
bsmt office
new york, ny 10016
New York 10016
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
i currently offer out-of-network therapy and private pay services. if you have out-of-network benefits, i can provide superbills for potential reimbursement. if you do not have out-of-network benefits, i can support you in coordinating with your insurance to request a pre-authorization and apply for a single case agreement or network gap exception. when approved, this can allow you to pay your in-network copay while your insurance covers the remaining cost. i also coordinate with therapy funds such as the loveland foundation and am open to working with grants, sponsorships, or other approved funding sources that help cover the cost of care. outside of these options, i offer a sliding scale based on your financial situation and am always open to discussing accessibility and affordability. psychotherapy (new york state only), wellness and spiritual coaching sliding scale rates vary on whether services are individual, relationship, or family-based.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
i’m polyamorous and kinky myself! i get the joys, challenges, and fun of non-monogamy, kink, and queer desire, and i love holding brave, playful spaces to explore them.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
wellness coaching + spiritual guidance offered virtually across state lines and borders
www.liebe-befreit.de
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Andrea Buch
Business Excerpt
I’m a psychologist, social worker and systemic consult (DGSF, in training), I offer professional online counseling that covers topics such as open relationships, relationship anarchy, polyamory, sex-positive lifestyle, as well as topics such as BDSM and fetish.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Psychologist (M. Sc.), Social Worker, systemic consult (DGSF, in training)
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
kontakt@liebe-befreit.de
Business Address
36037
Germany
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Paypal, bank transfer
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
sex positive, polyamory, relationship anarchy
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Log Pose Counseling
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Amanda Murray
Business Excerpt
Virtual individual therapy for adults 18 years old and up. EMDR trained, LGBTQ+ inclusive, poly-affirming, kink-affirming.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Phone Number
4043066430
Business Contact Email
amandamurraycctp@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
3050 Five Forks Trickum Rd SW
Ste D509
Georgia 30047
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
HSA, FSA, Visa, Mastercard
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Love Positive Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Anna Baxter
Business Excerpt
Anna Baxter, LPC is a sex-positive counselor passionate about providing a safe space for clients to find internal and external peace by living and loving more authentically. They particularly love working with transgender/gender non-conforming youth (13-25) and people in alternative relationships (polyamory/BDSM) as they shed cultural expectations around gender and sexuality.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Master of Arts in Community Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
678-446-8653
Business Contact Email
anna@lovepositivecounseling.com
Business Address
700 Old Roswell Lakes Pkwy Suite 300
Georgia 30076
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, check or credit card
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Frequently educate on kink and polyamory
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Photo of human with tan skin and a shaved head, sporting bright colored clothing, several tattoos and a smile.
Business Excerpt
Special interests include: Unpacking attachment wounds using IFS; Transition stages in Poly/ENM; Freedom from shame regarding sex & kink; Impacts of disability; Relationships to health, disordered eating, and/or fatness from a fat liberatory and body neutrality lens.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
LMSW
Business Phone Number
929-244-3295
Business Contact Email
lowell@expressyourselftherapynyc.com
Business Address
Virtual
New York 11237
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit Cards. Superbills provided for out-of-network benefits (no in-network coverage)
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
longstanding polyamorous & kink community member
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Maya Attia
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Talk with Maya Therapy
Business Excerpt
Kink-affirming, neurodivergent-informed therapist working with adults and couples throughout California. Specializing in BDSM dynamics, ENM/polyamory, shame, identity, and communication. No justifying your desires here — we start where you are. Online sessions.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Sex therapy certification, EFT trained
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
mayaattia86@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
California 92626
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash pay only
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Lived experience and professional training
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Meaningful Musings PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Malory Lund, MS, LMHCA, NCC
Business Excerpt
I am a sex-positive, strictly LGBTQIA+ affirming therapist passionate about helping individuals and couples improve the quality of their relationships and intimate lives.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Eastern Washington University - Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Business Phone Number
5097240244
Business Contact Email
malorylundcounseling@gmail.com
Business Address
1616 W Wellesley Ave Spokane, WA Suite B
Washington 99205
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, Check, Credit, Debit. I am happy to discuss what we can do to help keep therapy affordable. Please reach out with any questions.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Mindful Nature Counseling & Psychotherapy, PLLC
Name of Primary Practitioner
Katerina Philbrick
Business Excerpt
I am a poly, kink/BDSM, and alternative lifestyle-knowledgeable therapist. I strive to support and lift up others in their endeavors to live a full and authentic life.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, LPCA, CSTIP, CNITP
Business Phone Number
203 533-9021
Business Contact Email
katerina@mindfulnaturecounseling.com
Business Tags
Business Address
151 County Rd
Guilford, CT 06437
Connecticut 06437
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept self-pay, out-of-network, HSA/FSA, and have some Husky and sliding scale slots available.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Miss Mackenzee
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Miss Mackenzee
Business Excerpt
Seeking help is a courageous step, and I'm proud of you for choosing it. As a Board-Certified Sexologist, hypnotist, and trauma-informed coach, I specialize in BDSM and sexual wellness. My practice is inclusive, embracing all sexual identities and relationship dynamics. I work with diverse communities, including LGTBQ, sex workers, disabled and neurodivergent folks. I offer both in-person and virtual sessions to suit your needs.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
American Board of Sexology Certification, Trauma-informed Coach, Human Sexuality, Hypnosis and PTSD
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
Mackenzee@MissMackenzee.com
Business Address
19702
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, PayPal, Cash App, Venmo
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
VERY knowledgeable as I live both lifestyles.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Neli Morris
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Neli Morris
Business Excerpt
Poly- and kink knowledgeable therapist working with individuals and relationships through a collaborative, non-pathologizing lens, and providing teletherapy to clients in Texas, as well as in-person sessions in Dallas, TX.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Doctorate in Couple, Marriage, and Family Therapy
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
(214) 960-4585
Business Contact Email
neli@irethinktherapy.com
Business Address
4621 Ross Ave, Suite 310, Dallas, TX 75204
Texas 75204
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes, No, Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Individual therapy: $180; Couples/Family therapy: $200. I do not accept insurance, but I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your provider for possible out of network reimbursement
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
An image of a white, kinky, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, queer, transgender non-binary person with his hair in a bun, gently smiling.
Name of Primary Practitioner
Mx. Lauren Johnson, MA, LPC (He/Him)
Business Excerpt
Seeking affirming, inclusive OCD therapy that truly sees, understands, and affirms ALL parts of you? Specialized OCD therapy for the kink, polyamorous/non-monogamous, LGBTQIA+, and neurodivergent communities. Via telehealth in Lynchburg, VA and across Virginia, Florida, South Carolina, and Vermont.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Professional Counselor. Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Trained in Inference-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (I-CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
Business Phone Number
4345150695
Business Contact Email
Lauren@NeuroqueeringCounseling.com
Business Address
3730 Candlers Mountain Rd, Suite 1016, Lynchburg, VA 24502
Virginia 24502
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I accept HSA cards & all major credit cards. Payments are simple, secure, & upfront— so you can focus on therapy. Self-Pay Fees: Initial Intake (60-Minutes): $210; Psychotherapy (50-Minutes): $160; Psychotherapy (75-Minutes): $210.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I am a part of the polyamorous/non-monogamous and kink communities.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Also via telehealth in Florida, South Carolina, and Vermont
Kaia
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Tammy 'Kaia' Bruski, MS, LPC, CST
Business Excerpt
I'm a relationship and certified sex therapist in metro Denver specializing in LGBTQIA, BDSM, kink, polyamory, non-monogamy, and sex work. I support individuals, couples and moresomes of diverse backgrounds in building and maintaining healthy, alternative lifestyles and relationships.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
BA Psychology/ World Religions; MS Mental Health Counseling; AASECT sex therapist certification
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
720.412.9648
Business Contact Email
tammy@noscounseling.org
Business Address
2255 Sheridan Blvd. Unit C199
Colorado 80214
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Credit cards, FSA/HSA cards
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Recognized expertise in kink, BDSM, polyamory, non-monogamy, sex work and diverse sexual/ gender expressions.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
Telehealth sessions only
Name of Primary Practitioner
Olive Blackwood
Business Excerpt
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate (LMFTA #10427A), I have a deep commitment to supporting humans and relationships at the intersections of polyamory, kink, and queer identities. I genuinely want to know what you hold significant, from moments of injustice to the songs that have shaped the soundtrack of your life. I invite you and/or your partners to BYOE (Bring Your Own Expertise) on personal experiences and I’ll bring mine on the process of tailoring therapy to your needs.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
MA Counseling Psychology with training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Crisis Intervention
Business Phone Number
(704)559-9920
Business Contact Email
oblackwood@sweeneypsych.com
Business Tags
Business Address
North Carolina 28204
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
owner
Name of Primary Practitioner
Angela Jarecki
Business Category
Business Excerpt
We offer personalized kink coaching for individuals and couples looking to explore BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyles safely and consensually. Whether you're new to the scene or an experienced practitioner, our coaching services are designed to help you navigate your desires, deepen your understanding, and build a fulfilling kink experience.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
omahadungeon@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
901 Farnam St
Apt 381
Nebraska 68102
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash paypal zelle or venmo
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
in the lifestyle 10+ years
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Perspectives Counseling
Name of Primary Practitioner
Chris Tennant, LSW
Business Excerpt
Private practice kink, poly, and LBGTQ therapist
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
University of Chicago
Business Phone Number
(872) 239-3953
Business Contact Email
Ctennant@perspectivesltd.com
Business Address
20 North Clark St suite 2650
Chicago IL 60602


Illinois 60602
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
Yes
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Blue Cross Blue Shield, Humana, Aetna, Out of Network
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Very kink and poly friendly
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
4237 W 95th Street Oak Lawn, IL 60453
Name of Primary Practitioner
Shannon
Business Excerpt
Somatic Sexological bodywork
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Bondassage and Elysium certification
Business Website Address
Business Contact Email
Voluptuous.queenbee@gmail.com
Business Tags
Business Address
Nanaimo b.c
V9g1b7
Canada
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Cash, etransfer, debit
Poly Awareness Level
Aware
Kink Awareness Level
Aware
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware
Joshua | Queer Pathways
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Joshua Samuel Jonassaint
Business Excerpt
Specialized, kink-affirming telehealth for the "Double-Outsider." I provide a non-pathologizing sanctuary for the 2SLGBTQI+ community, focusing on the intersection of Kink/BDSM and Neurodivergence (ADHD/RSD).
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
icensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). Specialized training in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Kink-Aware clinical practice.
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
365-599-9002
Business Contact Email
jonassaint@QueerPathways.Org
Business Address
1303 Liverpool Street
Pennsylvania 15233
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Financial accessibility made simple: through Thrizer, you only pay your co-pay (for PA Aetna/UPMC) or your estimated out-of-pocket portion at the time of service. We handle the insurance wait for you.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Deep clinical focus on the intersection of neurobiology (ADHD/RSD), Kink, CNM, and power exchange. I provide a trauma-informed, shame-free space for exploration.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
100% Telehealth
Rachel Harlich, LCSW
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Rachel Harlich, LCSW
Business Excerpt
I am a NY telehealth somatic and parts-work trauma and couples therapist. I specialize in working with folks who are: childhood and adulthood trauma survivors, LGBTQIA+, kink/BDSM-involved, polyamorous and non-monogamous, neurodiverse, chronically ill and in pain, disabled, and impacted by fatphobia. I also offer training and consulting on my specializations.
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Trauma Informed Stabilization Treatment, Motivational Interviewing
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
929-484-2440
Business Contact Email
therapy@racheharlich.com
Business Address
29 Court St, Suite 409
Brooklyn NY 11242
New York 11242
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
I am currently only working with self-pay clients. My rates are $225 for 50 minute individual sessions and $300 for 60 minute couples sessions, with an additional $80 per additional partner for polycules. I offer weekly and bimonthly sessions depending on your needs. While I am not in-network with any insurance panels, I am happy to provide superbills for clients with out of network reimbursement benefits.
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
I have lived many of these identities myself as well as done extensive research and training.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Additional Location Data
seeing clients virtually all over New York State
Renew Health & Wellness
Name of Primary Practitioner
Erin Wallis, Russell Medical: NG Behavioral Therapy
Business Excerpt
Renew Health & Wellness is an integrated mental health clinic offering counseling services by our therapists and behavioral health team. An increasing number of our locations also integrate psychiatric medicine, yoga, wellness coaching, herbalism, cranial electrotherapy, hypnotherapy, psychological testing, biofeedback, nutritional counseling and amino acid therapies.
Treatment plans may be integrated by our team of mental health professionals using empirically-based interventions – according to the patients personal healing and wellness goals. We may use just one of these therapies or integrate several of them into treatment and wellness plans if clinically indicated. Each service provided is done in the context of caring for the whole person – understanding mind, body, and spirit are connected and affect each other in our journey toward wellness and healing.
Gender of Practitioner
Female
Education/Training/Certifications
Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sec Coach, Integrative Health Clinician & Coach
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
770.771.5050
Business Contact Email
erin@russellmed.com
Business Address
4355 Browns Bridge Road

30040
USA
Internet Based Business
Both Remote and Brick and Mortar
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
All Major Credit Cards Accepted
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Awareness Notes
Hello there! I am Erin Wallis, I use she/her/hers as pronouns. Please tell me yours(: I am an integrative health specialist and clinical sexologist. My passion is to bring awareness to all things within the realm of human health & sexuality. On the spectrum of human sexuality, my work includes advocacy, counseling, coaching, educating, & empowering survivors, those in the LGBTQ+ community, KAP-Kink Aware Professional, alternative sexualities(kink/bdsm), relationship counseling, and sex education. As an integrative life coach I help guide people that are confused on what to do in their lives, support goal-setting, personal growth, and behavior modification of clients. I will walk with you on your journey to achieve goals by introducing different actions necessary to take control of future plans.
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Sam Wilkinson, LMSW
Business Name
Name of Primary Practitioner
Sam Wilkinson
Business Excerpt
Wholehearted, person-centered therapy for queer, TGNC, polyam, kinky, and/or neurodiverse young folx in NY and MD. Schedule a free consultation today!
Gender of Practitioner
Non-Binary
Education/Training/Certifications
I have served as an INELDA-certified Death Doula, YogaBody Breath Coach, and NYS certified Rape Crisis Counselor, in addition to my credentials as a therapist. I am pursuing an additional Masters degree in positive psychology. My clinical training includes TF-CBT, EMDR, PACT Level 1, The Integrated Mental Health and Addictions Treatment Training Certificate through the Center for Practice Innovations, and a Sex Work Affirming Provider Equitable Care Certification through Zepp Wellness
Business Website Address
Business Phone Number
2018771825
Business Contact Email
sam@randirobbins.com
Business Address
New York 10036
USA
Internet Based Business
Yes
Do You Accept Insurance?
No
Tell us about the payment options you accept and any additional insurance details.
Sessions are $125 per hour. I accept major credits cards, FSA & HSA, and can provide superbills. You may be eligible for reimbursement from your insurance company for out of network costs. We've partnered with Mentaya, a service that streamlines getting reimbursed for your therapy sessions through out-of-network benefits. See if you qualify: https://mentaya.co/checkbenefits/543pUU11n44RAWadpscH
Poly Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Kink Awareness Level
Knowledgeable
Swinger (Lifestyle) Awareness Level
Aware