kink

Aware enough to distinguish between Kink, BDSM and Polyamory. Kink and BDSM are erotic in nature. They describe erotic activity that falls outside of the "vanilla" category. BDSM is a form of Erotic play that can be deeply meaningful and connective. Polyamory is a way of structuring your intimate relationships, a way of loving multiple partners fully and ethically. I am aware enough as someone who falls under all three labels to have concerns about the way I love and structure my relationships with my partners and my metamors being paired with ways of expressing sexuality. Incase you missed it- thats shade. Polyamory is not a kink, nor is it a fetish. To pair it with sexuality excludes asexual folks, platonic partners and rich metamour relationships. Not cute, bae.

Many years of experience involved in lifestyles

Knowledgable professionally and personally

I am a part of a kink community and have both personal and academic knowledge of all three of these areas.

One of the most well known practitioners in the area for those in alternative lifestyles, my practice has been almost solely with this population for over a decade.

Also available to provide professional development/education on a variety of sex-positive and open relationship topics.